March 7, 2008

Ideal Poly Family?

Posted in Uncategorized tagged , , , , , , at 7:53 am by Kathleen

I wonder what others consider the ideal to be. Is it a quad that functions as one unit? A triad that has attained balance? Is the perfect poly scenario one in which the primary partners take care of one another’s needs first, or are there no “rankings” at all?

The answer, of course, will be different for everyone, but it makes me wonder what others think of when they think of poly. The easy answer seems to be a threesome, usually with a unicorn, (otherwise known as a hot bisexual babe who is willing to date a couple).

What’s your ideal, or if you are not poly, what do you think of when you think of poly?





  1. T said,

    IMO, and the way we view it, is a group of more than 2 individuals ( in our case 4) that are extremely close in all ways, have sexual relations with each other, are available just like a spouse should be, and have become a familial unit. Now granted we, don’t all 4 live together, for reasons beyond our control, but daily contact is made and everyone knows what is going on at all times. I’m not even sure that really explains it….LOL….

  2. Kathleen said,

    Sounds like you are saying that for you, poly kind of means family. I like that. 🙂

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