June 3, 2008
Why I don’t want to date a dom
Pretty much the ONLY place I socialize anymore is at the dungeon, which lends itself to one small problem… you see, I have pretty much ruled out dating a dom, and two subs dating can get pretty boring.
Why is that you ask? Well, I have a dom. My husband is my Master, and I am very happy with this collaring arrangement. I don’t mind playing with other doms, but once they get to the “let’s be partners” stage, they start thinking about things (and I am being general here, so don’t yell at me if you’re the exception to this rule) things like collaring. I have a collar, thanks.
Doms are kind of possessive by nature, and while that isn’t a bad thing, many of them do NOT like to share someone that they are seriously involved with.
A sub on the other hand… I am pretty subby, but I have been getting toppy tendencies that leads me to believe that I might be able to dom the right person eventually. The problem is, I am picky about guys, and I would be REALLY picky about subs. There are very few men who can properly cower in a ways that doesn’t totally turn me off. 😉 Not sure what that way is, but I’ve only met a couple of sub men that I thought I could actually enjoy playing with. Maybe one day I’ll actually take the reins.
In the mean time… thanks for reading! 😉
Blessings,
Kathleen
Polyamory from the Inside Out 